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I’m back:)

OK…so I was MIA for a few days. But lemme tell ya—now I can actually concentrate on writing again. First, muchos gracious to my blog readers for following me over to this new address. If you have my old blog address saved in your blogroll, please put this new address www.babeofmyheart.comin its place. I’m new to WordPress–so as soon as I figure out how to add my personal blogroll (family, friends and adoption friends blogs) I’ll have that up too. I made the switch to WordPress as it’s a big harder to copy images from. Last month, I noticed a influx of internet hits and they were from all over the world but mostly all visiting one post. I was able to track them all coming from one forum and I visited it to see a picture of my sweet L-bird on there. Granted, it was a picture from our movie fun (it was a picture of her and Kathryn Hiegl) but still–it had me cross-eyed. The forum administrator was quick to remove it and very apologetic. Then a dear adoption, blogging friend of mine recently had many of her images from her blog stolen as well. I *LOVE* writing. I *LOVE* sharing my life. But I don’t love pictures being swiped. So–I made the move to WordPress which doesn’t use a separate gallery to store images like Blogger does (Picasa) which makes it much easier to get images. Wordpress also has automatic spell check—and since I type so fast and my time with 3 kids (soon to be 4) is so limited…this will make your reading easier too;). SO…here I is:) 

[Side note–all of my images are now and will be watermarked. It’s not as much fun to steal a watermark and copyrighted image—so I hope my sweet readers can look beyond the watermark and see the beauty in each image instead:). Double gracious.]

[Double side note–I have had several folks curious about WordPress and my design layout. I bought a simple template and designed it myself. I wouldn’t call WordPress the most user friendly blog, but a template definitely makes it easier. If you aren’t familiar with photoshop, I would stick to Blogger—and just watermark your images to be safe.]

Now to catch up my sweet blog friends:-). GOSH…it is already practicially THURSDAY?! I wish I had some really exciting news to share with you on the adoption front. But I don’t. WAAAA. I did miss a phone call from Oregon on Monday—got really excited (this is where our agency is located)—called our case worker Christy and tried to play it cool.  I just thought for sure the waiting child list had been updated and maybe there was a special needs baby who had come through that they thought might be a fit for our family. But it turned out the call wasn’t from them…and the Lord I know keeps looking down and shaking his head at me. The Lord continues to say wait my child—but obviously I have a hearing problem. Let me claim 2 Corinthians 12:9 here–“But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” Praise the LORD that His power is made PERFECT in my weakness! Hallelujah that when I boast about my weakness that Christ’s power may rest on me! [Ok…if we are boasting about our weaknesses here–can I just confess that I honked today at a road rage mom? I know I shouldn’t have—but her hands went up in the air and I honked. Special note to my sisters and best friends reading this—I did NOT stick out my tongue or make my enfamous ‘nanny-nanny-boo-boo face’…I just honked…but still I shouldn’t have honked. Now…I hope Christ’s power can come rest on me so next time I don’t. I’m just sayin. I need His power to rest on me DAILY!]

And speaking of NEEDING Him. I am amazed over and over at His love for me through adoption. I am amazed at the emotions and love He has already given me toward our 4th baby. I think of him so often. Last week, I had a babysitter over for Frank, and I had a short time to myself before carpool began for P and L-bird. I read online that our local businesses are hurting so badly because of online shopping, so I decided to do my part and to boost the local economy. For real. So, I ran to Carta Bella…a really cute boutique store here in town. Literally when the guy asked if he could help me I said, “I’m just here trying to boost the local economy thank you.” OK…I probably looked like a complete nut. JUST WAIT…you know me—when you think I just got nutty…it only gets nuttier.

So, I start pulling picture frames off the wall as I realize Christmas is just around the corner, and this next hour may be my only kid-free shopping before Christmas. So, I decided to do all my local economy boosting in one place. ONLY…I didn’t do a very good job shopping for other people. [While we are confessing our weaknesses here, does anyone else have that problem?! Why is it you see things that melt your own heart and things you need while shopping for others?! OHHHH…temptation! OK…this is where the nuttier part comes back in. So I was falling in love with all of these random quote picture frames and the stack in my arm was getting higher—when I spotted a really sweet frame about being a mommy. You would think it wouldn’t have caught me off guard because my bestfriend Kelly has this in her home, and I read it every time I’m over there chillin on her couch. BUT…this time my “paper pregnancy hormones” kicked in. And nuttier [aka ME] stood there SPEECHLESS and wiped away tears as I read this…the first gift for our baby’s nursery

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 As I stood there reading this…I wasn’t sure which mommy for our baby that would describe best. His birth mother. Or me. I think it’s both. And as I stood there reading it OVER and OVER again—thinking about the journey we have traveled thus far…the tears I have cried…the errands and hoop jumping…the paperwork…the courses, the books, the research…the call the Lord has put on my heart to LOVE and PERSUE as He persued me for eighteen long years before I accepted Him as my Father—I just stood there…and without really having to ask–the clerk said, “Would you like me to get that down for you?” Yes. Yes I would. And with my voice still cracking and looking nuttier than ever I just said, “This is for my baby’s room.”

How thankful I am for this journey. And how thankful I am for my friends, family and adoption friends who have come along for the ride with our family—and who also invite us to come along for their rides of life. Today I am reminded how sweet each of our stories are. None are perfect, all have joys—hard stuff—but all of them are sweet as His power is made perfect in our weakness…His grace is all we need…and through Him we can do anything as He is the one who leads, guides and gives us strength when we open our hearts and hands to Him.

Happy Thursday.

XOXO,

andrea

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missy - December 16, 2009 - 10:47 pm

what a beautiful first gift for the nursery. and it does capture the love and sacrifice of both the ethiopian mommy and the forever mommy.

melissa - December 17, 2009 - 7:32 am

what joy i find in resting in him and know that his power is greater in my weaknesses. i realize his power must be so great, because i am so weak! thank you for your honesty, sweet andrea!

JonesEthiopia - December 17, 2009 - 11:07 am

Geez, talk about getting emotional reading that quote! I guess I should not read blogs at work…

Thank you for sharing!

Tiffany Paterline - December 18, 2009 - 7:12 pm

Love that frame too! You can’t go wrong with any of the frames from Magnolia Lane. I sure miss Carta Bella. 🙁 My favorite store in Vickery Village until they moved to Roswell. Such a sweet family. Merry Christmas to you and your family. 🙂

Polly Adams - December 21, 2009 - 7:54 pm

How do you watermark a picture on your blog? thanks!!Polly

A much needed weekend in the South…

Every photographer knows…and every client who regularly uses a photographer for their holiday pictures know…that Christmas time is by far the craziest time of year. Every year I say my deadline to order is November 15th—and every year I get gazillons of emails asking me to pretty please extend order galleries…pretty please design a last minute holiday card…and pretty please squeeze us in. With all the pretty pleases some times what little time I have to relax (very little with 3 kids 5 and under) gets squeezed right out too. I’m STILL finishing up editing and ordering–but my hubby convinced me to get away for the weekend with our three little ones. It was a much needed get away. We headed down to South Georgia and stayed in my hubby’s bestfriends guest house on his family’s property. A 500 acre lake…a toasty fire…and sweet little toes…I’d say it doesn’t get better than that, does it?!

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Loo Bear is sitting in my favorite spot of the weekend. It was sweet time with old friends–sitting around singing Joy to the World with the guitar…sippin’ hot chocolate…and of course chasing kids. We were joined by two sweet families, 5 single guys and a bunch of sugarplum kids. While they all took off for Wafflehouse one morning, I stayed back and enjoyed the fire while Frankie baby napped. And when he woke up, we patiently awaited the crew to get back…look who was so excited to see Daddy walking back up to join us…

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It was a perfect weekend…and then we had to pack up on Sunday and scoot-a-loo home just in time with our date with…

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We had 10 families joining us…the mommas in my Bible study and their families were all coming. One of the older kiddos told the Christmas story (melt my heart!) and Santa was supposed to arrive promptly at 4pm. 4:15 still no Santa. 4:30 still no Santa. Called Santa Atlanta to find out our Santa was MIA so she (aka Mrs.Claus/Santa bookie) sent this fabulous Santa instead. HE WAS PERFECT. The kids LOVED it…although my oldest kept telling me that this was just a man dressed up like Santa. We do participate in Santa, but we REALLY lay low on him…we dodge the stories and don’t emphasize him…and instead we saturate our holiday time with the meaning and purpose of Christmas…Jesus’s birth. As P-man gets older, I want to focus less on Santa as I’m not sure what I think about him anyway…but as long as he’s in the same category as Peter Pan and Cinderella…I think it can be fun. Our Elf on the Shelf is rather inactive…it’s plenty for us to focus on Jesse Tree stories and fun crafts. And speaking of fun crafts—if you need a kiddo friendly dessert for your holiday dinner…this one is EASY PEASY! ORNAMENT CUPCAKES! How cute are these…

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All you’ll need is good old cupcake/cake mix. White icing (cream cheese icing is best). Food coloring. Mini-Reece cups. Curved pretzels. We made red, green, blue and yellow ornament cupcakes. I made one as an example and the kids all made theirs themselves. THEY LOVED IT! And it gave them something fun to do too! And while they designed their cupcakes…we finally snagged a picture of our crew…believe it or not we’re missing 5 girls here…but here is my INCREDIBLE Thursday night Bible study crew…I LOVE!

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It was SUCH a fun time! Yet even during all the fun I still felt like someone was missing! My heart is really beginning to LONG for our baby. My sweet friend Addie gave me a candle a few weeks ago. She also has one like it at her house—and she gave the candle to me with the SWEETEST note. Addie is also my friend who joins me and my sister April once a month to pray for our sweet baby. Addie and I are lighting our candles throughout the journey as a reminder to pray for and remember the sweet baby of our hearts. No one at the party knew what it was burning for—but every time I passed it I smiled and knew that some where in the world there is a little one that in just a handful of months will forever be our child.

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I’m guessing by the end of our journey this candle will be burned next to nothing…maybe this glass will become the glass that he uses with his “birthday plate” each year…maybe it will be the glass that one day he uses to take communion with at his wedding ceremony…maybe we’ll pop another candle in it when we are praying for his first child one day…I have so many dreams for him already…but for now it will burn as a reminder to pray for our little guy and to remind me of his presence in the world. He may be half way around the world now, but one thing is FOR SURE…he is already in my heart and I am beginning to realize more and more how much I already love him and would do anything to bring him home. What a miracle God is doing! Oh how the Lord loves us!!! To think that He loves us even more!!!

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Dawn - December 15, 2009 - 10:33 pm

Love the cupcake idea- adding that to my memory!!!

Your pictures are fantastic! Glad you had a weekend away- that is always a blessing……

Love the candle idea…knowing that God has it taken care of is wonderful…and knowing that you are praying for them all this time….even better!!!!

Merry Christmas from my new blog:)

Thanks for making the treck to my new blog address. Please update this address if your blog is linked to mine! I’m still adding pages, links, etc–so if you would like to have your blog linked to mine, please add yours in my comments and I’ll add your link when I update my blog roll. I *love* keeping up with so many of you–and I made the switch-a-roo to a WordPress hosting site to better protect my blog content and pictures. Still have some tweaking to do…but for now here I’ll be!

Now…to share our family’s Christmas card for 2009!

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I still have a handful to pop in the mail, but here’s our card this year…from our family to yours…MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Here is the bookmark we sent out too! (Front and back)Backbookmark

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Amy @ Filled With Praise - December 15, 2009 - 5:32 am

Very cool. I changed your address on my blogroll.
Blessings,
Amy

Jenny - December 15, 2009 - 6:14 am

Beautiful blog. I have been following your blog for about a month….our third child is adopted from Guatemala and we are seriously praying about starting ET. (We also have a little girl named Lane….she sometimes goes by Laney). What a precious family you have and can’t wait to see how God is going to bless you even more with your new ET love. I have a wordpress blog too and was wondering if you could give me any tips on how you were able to set yours up with a great template and stuff. I see that you used a .com domain…mine is hosted at wordpress.com. I think you have to use a self-hosted domain like yours to be able to set up more options…did you create the template and everything yourself? I know you are a busy mom, but any help would be appreciated. Your blog looks great!

Jenny C.
calcrew.wordpress.com

v - December 15, 2009 - 6:40 am

http://journeytojames1-27.blogspot.com/

I am thinking about making the move too…how does wordpress protect things?

JonesEthiopia - December 15, 2009 - 6:43 am

Could you tell me how to make the switch, too? I don’t want to go privat necessarily, but I do want to make things a little more secure. I didn’t know you could use special backgrounds and all that on wordpress!
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Nikki - December 15, 2009 - 8:26 am

Beautiful card! Yes, apparently I also need some WordPress coaching… are you offering classes? 😉

julie johnston - December 15, 2009 - 9:02 am

I lovvvvveeeee your blog!!! I too would love to know how to switch to wordpress!!!

Jen~Beautiful Mess - December 15, 2009 - 9:15 am

Going to change your address on my blogroll now…

Like the new look.

God bless you!

Jen

Heather Perry - December 15, 2009 - 10:40 am

Hey! I’ve been following your blog and would love to continue to do so! Could you let me know exactly what I should do to continue? I’d also would like to know more about the wordpress. Thanks! Heather

Jenn - December 15, 2009 - 11:28 am

Looks awesome! Love how your card coordinates with your blog 🙂 I should have had you make our card…I was never thrilled with my final product. Hope the new format works well for ya…I like having a wordpress blog…pretty sure you will too!!!

Jenn

Courtney - December 15, 2009 - 11:57 am

love the new header!! and, as always, love your blog!

Jennifer - December 15, 2009 - 1:59 pm

LOVE IT!!! Will you share how you made WordPress so cute on one of your posts!?! I was looking at this, but the templates were so drab and I love the look on my google blogger:)
Thanks!
Jenny

JJ - December 15, 2009 - 2:02 pm

I love it! The Christmas card is beautiful too. Ours aren’t getting made or sent out until our babies are home, so ours are going to be landing in mailboxes in February. I just can’t bring myself to make them without pictures of 2 members of our family on them. So everyone will just have to wait. I’m sure they’ll understand. Can’t wait to see more pictures. I too would love some advice and details about switching to WordPress.

Dawn - December 15, 2009 - 6:57 pm

I would love to be added to your blog roll….Love reading your blog & have updated it on our web. Thanks again for all the tips…. 🙂

Love your Christmas Card- Definitely have sooo many reasons to Celebrate Christ!!

heidi - December 16, 2009 - 6:44 am

Hey there! So, do you think this website will be more secure? I was wondering if I should move mine too? I love the new look

Heather Wamble - December 17, 2009 - 10:59 am

Andrea! The new blog looks great! I love my wordpress blog, just haven’t kept it up as I should! (www.yettobestudios.com/blog)
We got your Christmas Card in the mail, and it’s just beautiful… LOVE the bookmark! It’s in my Bible. Love, love, love it! Thank you for blogging about your journey- I’ve loved hearing about how it’s going, and you’re such a blessing to me! =) Love to you!

Megan - December 19, 2009 - 12:50 pm

I LOVE LOVE LOVE your Christmas card! Do you make them yourself???

It’s just another…

manic Monday! I’m still here…just busy being Monday and I have a few irons in the fire getting ready to move my bloggie blog to a new site! Hang tight! No big news in the adoption circle except our sweet, sweet case worker called us on Friday to check in. Things are slow right now at Hannah’s Hope–but there is a big group over RIGHT now picking up their little ones and another big group of 10 going over Christmas Eve for 10 days to bring home there little ones. We think with all these trips there should be A LOT of movement in January and February. We are really looking forward to 2010 over here!!!

Lots of fun pictures to share from our weekend…but for now we are heading to the grocery…yep–me and 3 kids under 5 to the grocery we go! I always love when I get stopped with the 3 of them to “Ma’am, you have your hands full!” Oh, if only they knew;). The Young’s thrive on chaos:-)

Thankfully, I only have to cook 2 meals this week since I’m married to a travelin’ man…and then guess who has a birthday this weekend:). I love birthdays and think they ought to be celebrated ALL week:). Since Christmas is NEXT week…maybe I should start celebrating another good year this week:). Ok, I’ll keep that in mind as I’m at the grocery. Happy early birthday to me:).

XOXO!

Andrea

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The Three Kings…the journey of obedience

I stayed up late last night creating a little outfit my little man to wear in the live nativity at school. Next Friday he will be one of the three kings–he gets to be the Ethiopian king! I had 2 choices in creating a turban. Either I could watch this you tube video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h7RMH873lR0 (nice, but no thanks) OR I could get out my hot glue gun and hot glue fabric to one of our many Bob the Builder hats. I chose to skip the 7 minute tutorial and use hot glue instead:). I wish you could have seen the look on Parker’s face this morning when I showed him over breakfast this

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I told him the clear jewels are diamonds to show his wealth and the white fresh water pearls…are tiger teeth…to show his bravery:). Parker loves when I make things a little more descriptive. (My apologies to any PreK friends who now think the wise men came with tiger teeth to bring their gifts…I mean, you NEVER know;) We had to have this ready for school today so they can practice all next week…but he couldn’t wait to try everything on.

The magi’s top cloak is hand sewn with love from our Wiphan widows! On a side note, if you want to know more about our ministry in Zambia and how you can be a part of life change to widows and orphans this Christmas, check out http://www.wiphan.org/! Didn’t our ladies do a beautiful job with this top! So…our little Magi is the Ethiopian king with a shout out from Zambia!

I tried to get him to take this to carry his gift in…

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Wouldn’t that have been COOL?! BUT, he opted for the more humble container hand carved by our Zambian friend who made this for Laney to keep her jewelry in. By the way, the woodcarver in Zambia is now going to be TEACHING our widows WOODCARVING! And they can sell what they make in the market! YAY! Here is our little Magi’s gift carrier for the nativity…

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It’s funny how the Three Kings keep coming up this season. Have you EVER really sat and listened to the all of the words of the hymn “We Three Kings of Orient Are”?! They are SO powerful. [See all the lyrics here] Talk about worship as the hymn walks you through the symbolism of each gift!!! And for those of you who celebrate St.Nicholas (I confess…we are Santa fans…stone me, roll my yard, send me emails…but we saturate Christmas with the story of Jesus…but we also enjoy the fun of Santa, the Tooth Fairy, and I even try to catch my shadow like Peter Pan for the kids for fun;). OK…back on track…but did you know that St.Nicholas actually paved the way for the hymn “We Three Kings”?! STRANGE…BUT TRUE!

After the War of 1812, Anglicans in America decided to establish their own seminary for training Episcopalian ministers. The school was voted for in 1817 and was put in New York City. Clement Clarke Moore (son of NY’s Episcopalian Bishop) was a landscaper and wrote the poem “Twas the Night Before Christmas” His poem made him famous and a sought after worker. To make a long story short, Moore became wealthy, gave his land for the seminary to be built on and became an instructor there of Biblical languages. One of his students John H. Hopkins Jr wrote the hymn “We Three Kings of Orient Are” for a school Christmas pageant in 1857. Isn’t it amazing how all things happen for the glory of God! Without the written words “But I heard him exclaim, ‘ere he drove out of sight, Merry Christmas to all, and to all a good night!”…Moore would have never been heard of…he would have never become wealthy…the seminary may not have been built…and this worshipful hymn is actually born out of one of our favorite poems about Christmas. SO COOL! I’m sure Moore was wondering at the time why in the WORLD the Lord wanted him to write a poem about Santa…but look what happened through it!

And that reminds me of the obedience of the wise men. Have you ever wondered how FAR and how long they must have traveled? To the world, I know their journey did NOT make sense? I rarely reflect on their journey and how hard this was…men of stature and looked up to in their society…traveled days, weeks, months…COUNTRIES away to see the baby that had been prophesied about. I wonder how many times they wanted to turn around—how many times they looked at each other and said, “What are we doing?! Are we seriously following a star?!” Yet, they continued to LOOK UP following the star in the east.

Then one day the star finally stopped over where the child was AND THEY WERE FILLED WITH JOY. Then what happened? They bowed down and WORSHIPPED. Faithful obedience will always lead to worship. Always. Why? Because God’s will for YOUR life according to His word is good, pleasing and PERFECT (Romans 12:1-2). Do you feel the Lord calling you to do something? Continue in something? Are you in the middle of a process that just seems crazy to the rest of the world? Do you just some times wonder like the wise men probably did, “Will we ever get there?!” Obedience will always end in worship—because this is HOW GOOD the LORD and HIS WILL for your life is!!!

For those of you on a journey of obedience, reflect and remember the journey of the wisemen this Christmas. It was one of looking UP. Following the Light. Trusting in the Lord. And maintaining hope in what the Lord has called you to. And when days are hard—REMEMBER above everything…that your journey, like the wisemen, will end in worship!!! His plans for you are GOOD, PLEASING and PERFECT…and the One who calls you is faithful, and he will continue to be faithful (1 Thessalonians 5:24)

My friends—I am running this marathon with you—praying for many of you and excited…SO EXCITED…to hear one day your stories of worship!

5th Refrain of “We Three Kings of Orient Are”
Glorious now behold Him arise,
King and God and Sacrifice;
Alleluia, alleluia! Earth to heav’n replies.
O’ star of wonder, star of night,
Star of royal beauty bright;
Westward leading, still proceeding,
Guide us to thy perfect light.

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Are These Kids All Yours? - December 11, 2009 - 1:40 pm

Love your post….and the falling snow too!!!

Melissa DeBardeleben - December 11, 2009 - 9:12 pm

Thanks for the encouragement!

Sarah - December 13, 2009 - 7:39 pm

I saw your post on Kristi Johnson's page. I will be crushed if I lose two of the blogs I read daily. If you do decide to go private, I would absolutely love to be invited to follow. Thank you for sharing your journey. You are an inspiration!

The B Family - December 14, 2009 - 2:22 pm

You have such a sweet and inspirational blog! I just love it!

I just pasted those codes into mine and can't tell you how good it made me feel when I tried to right click and paste and it wouldn't let me! Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge with us on the listserv and for sharing your heart on your blog!