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WAIT LISTED!

YAY! We got the call we’d been holding our breath for all day tonight at 7pm! AGCI is 3 hours behind us and they close at 4:30 on Fridays, so looks like they called me just before shutting down for the day. And our numbers?! Well, they have to wait until Monday! Am I serious?! I know, that’s what I said! For whatever reason, our case worker said that they would give me my numbers first thing on Monday morning. Not sure why—but that’s just the way it’s gonna work I guess—and you know what?! I’ll take it! Because our being waitlisted means…

…our paper chase is OVER!

…I can finally not fret about notaries, redoing paper work or one of my preschoolers deciding to our dossier is a coloring book…a little fear of mine–and thank goodness that never happened before mailing it all in!

…we are one step closer to our baby!!!

I jokingly told several people that I did NOT even care what our numbers were as long as we were wait listed. I guess God decided to take me up on that one…and keep all of us in suspence…so this weekend we celebrate being on the official wait list…and Monday we’ll have good news again! I love the way God works some times. Some times things are just TOO great, and He just likes to spread things out to make the celebrating spread out as long as possible!

Stay tuned for Monday:). YAY! I’m SOOOOO excited!!!

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Kim - November 14, 2009 - 4:17 am

Celebrating with you! Cannot wait for Monday's news!
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Kelley Brown - November 14, 2009 - 6:18 am

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!! One step closer!!!! Can't wait for the update on Monday! 🙂 Love you!

Jenn - November 14, 2009 - 7:25 am

In agony here 🙂 We got the call too but missed it. Hoping and PRAYING we are going to receieve numbers on Monday too. But SO EXCITED for your guys and rejoicing alongside you!!

Jenn

Amy - November 14, 2009 - 8:10 am

LOL, God is funny sometimes 🙂

At least you can relax knowing that everything is correct and you are officially waiting. I wonder what all the confusion is about? I know they got a lot of dossier this week.

Looking forward to SEEING your numbers!!!

milreb - November 14, 2009 - 10:05 am

Congrats, it's so good to have closure on the paperwork. Look forward to hearing your number!

Are These Kids All Yours? - November 14, 2009 - 3:13 pm

Congrats…..even if you have to wait 🙂

3 Blessings - November 14, 2009 - 8:33 pm

Yea!!! It is just a relief to know that you do not have to worry about it anymore. I cannot wait to hear your number!
Blessings,
Amy

Angie Walter - November 15, 2009 - 12:44 pm

are you ready for monday or WHAT?! hahah who looks forward to mondays but obsessed crazy adoptive parents…I am now STALKING my cell phone *sigh* deep breath!

They got it:)

Christie, our AGCI case worker, emailed me today to let me know she had my dossier and home study sitting safely on her desk, and it will be reviewed on Friday with all the other dossiers…in the order they were received. YAY! Please pray with us that the dossier is complete and no revisions are necessary…we are so excited and anxious to get our numbers!!! We did not make a gender request, and we were told without a request we would most likely get to the bottom of the boy list first…but a friend of ours told us she has actually seen the lists change during her time with AGCI and it’s quite possible for things to change for us too. We are almost officially “pregnant” but we’ll still be watching the numbers month to month to see what our “ultrasound” will say! The exciting thing about adoption—is on your “ultrasound day”…referral day…you find out not only whether you will be the mommy of a boy or girl…but you ALSO see their picture, their sweet little face—and you fall in love in a different, miraculous way! We are just excited to almost have a number!

I’M REALLY GOING TO BE A MOMMY AGAIN! I get to go across the world and see my baby for the FIRST time…and he (or she!) will be MY CHILD! FOREVER! It’s REALLY happening!!! I am really, really, really going to get to be a mommy again! And now without a business. I get to mommy 4 children and be 100% ALL mommy! I can’t believe how GOOD the Lord is!!! I’m just so excited!!!!

Now…Debby Downers. I still have a couple more weeks of editing and work. I’m up editing away tonight…but had to pop in and jot something on our adoption blog. I was terrible about updating my photography blog–but this adoption blog…addicted. Completely and utterly addicted. It’s so therapuetic for me to rehash our day and what’s ahead…and it’s really fun to also grab some of you and bring you on our journey with us.

On a random / fun / day in the life kind of note—we completed our filming debut for the movie “Live As We Know It” tonight! Stay tuned for the funny details…but the most fun part—I shared our adoption with Kathryn Hiegel and even gave her some really fun 147 Million Orphan tshirts, necklaces and hats that Gwen gave me to give her. VERY FUN! She was so excited and loved the beaded necklaces especially! They are TOO cool…you can buy some here: http://147millionorphans.com/

I’ve got pictures from our night—even a cute one of Kathryn and Miss Laney bug…we had dinner with the actors, actresses, set staff after shooting tonight too…Kelly and I had fun—but I must say we have completely gotten the movie thing out of our system! Fun to say we did it, but sitting in a room from 2pm-10pm waiting on and off for your time to roll…and between the 2 of us we had FIVE little ones UNDER FIVE…man, it was crazy…but fun and we met a lot of really neat people. And I even got to share Wiphan Care Ministries with a few…you just never know who might want to be a part of what God is doing in Zambia through Wiphan! http://www.wiphan.org/

And last but not least…I’m so excited because guess what I just bought tickets to while taking a break from editing??? I bought 2 kids tickets (Frank will sit this one out…sorry bud–it’s past your bedtime) and 2 adult tickets for December 19th (my bday) to take our crew to…

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to see….
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THE NUTCRACKER!!!
And what I’m even more excited about is that we got orchestra seating for just $20 a ticket. If you buy them early enough you get close and cheap:). My kind of night. OK…I know we are penny pinching for our adoption…but Richard if you are reading this—Happy Birthday to Me:) Hee.hee.
OK…so stay tuned. I’ll post some film pictures tomorrow to help distract me from wondering if we’ll get our numbers on Friday…and I do hope to have some fun news to post on Friday. YET…it is all in the Lord’s hands and I’m going to wait on His timing…as hard as that is to write…I’m going to wait on Him!
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Are These Kids All Yours? - November 12, 2009 - 9:21 am

I know you are sooo excited to be done with the work!!! Hey, the Nutcracker sounds great- need a break every once in a while 🙂 Enjoy, and can't wait to hear your numbers!

Megan - November 12, 2009 - 12:39 pm

Congrats on getting all the paperwork in! You guys were so fast on it! We're still sitting here praying for the $$.

Are you gonna post pics from your filming tonight? What a fun thing to do with the family!

angie - November 13, 2009 - 12:36 pm

hey! so excited for you guys! i keep checking back for news. i am sure i will hear you from here when you get your number 🙂

Heidi - November 13, 2009 - 9:07 pm

Congrats getting all your paperwork done and turned in .. YEA!!! It feels so good to be done with it all..it's a time of rejoicing. On Thursday our Dossier made it safely to Ethiopia!

Our waiting is ALMOST official!!!

YES…the Fed Ex man came!
YES…we turned right around and overnighted our package to AGCI! (It will arrive at 8:30am tomorrow morning!)
YES…we will be holding our breath, hoping for no revisions and waiting for the number and place in line God has chosen for us!
Until then…we are all dreaming.
Laney and Parker are dreaming of a baby to join their team (and with these just 14 months a part…this pair IS a team!)
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They are dreaming of another one to laugh with…maybe even tickle…and possibly even pick on (poor Frank is picked on quite a bit these days!)…
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And Frank is dreaming of HIS side kick getting here—and quick…
(doesn’t this face look like he is longing for his partner in crime?!)
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“Can’t you see *I* need a buddy! If anyone needs you over here…it’s me! See these two behind me?! They’ve lost their minds—crazy, I tell ya. You and me—we’ve got work to do. We’re taking these two down…finally after a year of being picked up–tickled–dressed up…finally, I’m gonna have a side kick. We’re totally eating all of their goldfish. You tell Almaz and the crew at Hannah’s Hope your jettin’ out on a fast plane cause you’ve got a brotha in need…someone’s waiting on you. Come quick. I need ya bud!”
 
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And look what the leader of the pack did today?!
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Took our dossier to FedEx…and happily handed over the months of long work!
What a BIG day for us!!! And it was so fun to let Parker be a part of it today!
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Parker said as we got in the car, “That was it, wasn’t it mommy? The package that will bring my baby home from Africa?”
“Yes honey, that’s the package!”
And then he replied, “Are you sure we can’t bring home two?”
Thank you Jesus for what you are doing in our son’s heart!!!
Thank you Jesus for changing ours in the process—to love more, to sacrifice with joy and to wait upon your perfect will!
PRAISE JESUS! One step closer to the Babe of our HEART!
(and guess what song was playing while we did all this today?! the first song on today’s playlist that you are listening to right now! Give us eyes to see and a heart to love with Lord!
 Man, what an awesome day…rain and all!)
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3 Blessings - November 10, 2009 - 3:27 pm

Those pictures are just precious. My three kiddos have the same shirts. I just love them.
Praying,
Amy

Are These Kids All Yours? - November 10, 2009 - 4:34 pm

Those are adorable pics! I agree- Frank needs a partner in crime…I mean you know to play with.

lindsey deyoung - November 10, 2009 - 4:53 pm

Cute!! Where did you get the shirts?? I love 'em!

Sarah - November 10, 2009 - 7:47 pm

Thanks so much for the link! I love the precious pictures of your sweet children in the shirts. And CONGRATULATIONS! What a wonderful feeling to have everything out of your hands and on the way to Ethiopia. What a great day! Blessings,

Sarah

Melissa DeBardeleben - November 10, 2009 - 8:36 pm

What a great post! Your sweet little boy is going to love reading this someday! I will say a prayer over this package! Have fun tomorrow with the stars!

Jenn - November 10, 2009 - 9:51 pm

WOOHOO!! What a great feeling!! I am HOPING to mails ours off tomorrow…one more thing to finalize and then we will jump in line behind you 🙂 🙂 🙂 CONGRATS!!

Jenn

Kimberly - November 10, 2009 - 9:57 pm

What a wonderful thing to read just before I head to bed. The financial pressure of how we are going to adopt more children is weighing heavily this eveing and this just puts me right back on track. The how is already done right? My job is to trust God and keep stepping.
I am so excited for you and your entire family!

Ahhhh…the life of movie stars;)

Well, we were down for a day of shooting tomorrow in the movie “Life as We Know It”…but one of the kids in the birthday party scene apparently is sick and unable to come. We’ve already filmed the birthday scene from one angel–now we are going back for the same scene from a different angel. And what do you do if one person from the previously filmed scene can’t be there to stand in the same exact spot at the party as the last shoot?! Yep, reschedule!

So…our next shoot day is now this Wednesday. Good thing we have Wednesday free! But sadly we aren’t informed on beginning shoot time until 2am the day before shooting…thankfully they let us know earlier today that we’d shoot Wednesday instead of Tuesday. Ahhhh…the life of movie stars;)

Just when I thought I had gotten my movie fix out of my system, I start thinking about hearing the director shout, “BACKGROUND! QUITE! ROLLING!”…there is definitely an air on a movie set that is exciting and fun—just hope my three cooperate this time since Rico Suave (aka Daddy) won’t be there to help us this time! To be continued:)

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Melissa DeBardeleben - November 10, 2009 - 7:39 am

Have fun tomorrow! I like your new look for your blog! Very Cute! I dreamed about African Children last night! I don't remember what it was about, but it makes me more excited! Thanks for all your encouragement!

Guess what is arriving at my house tomorrow?

Just got the word from our home study agency that copies have been made and everything is notarized! Everything will arrive via FedEx in my hands TOMORROW (Tuesday). YAY! And that means…I’ll be joggin, break dancing and singing all the way to the FedEx store to next day ship our dossier, home study and check to AGCI. YAY! So…everything should arrive to AGCI on Wednesday and hopefully we won’t have any revisions…and then we’ll get a number! OH HAPPY DAY!

Look how our dossier has been patiently waiting on our kitchen island for the last week or so…

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That’s our original on top and 3 copies below…the original and 2 copies will take off on Wednesday with our homestudy and the extra copy will stay safely here with me.
And what is a dossier (pronounced da-see-ay) anyway???
It’s a list of required documents for international adoption–basically it’s everything that goes over and is reviewed during your court to adopt your child.
Requirements are different per agency, program and country. Before traveling the road of adoption–adoption lingo and the unknown requirements totally freaked me out and were so foreign. It’s really not bad at all once you understand the contents! And it was actually kind of fun to collect it all as it felt like I was getting closer and closer to our baby. Our home study had a completely different set of requirements and required format. For our dossier we had to include this:
Two power of attorney letters—both notarized, one state certified
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Background checks in letter format from our city police…easy enough so far, right?
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Financial Statements – What he makes, what she makes and what you got that’s an investment
[didn’t include this picture…but 3 letters are required…super simple and can be done in a day]
Original birth certificates and an original marriage certificate…
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A letter written to the Ministry of Women of Affairs for the court process from Richard…
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Medical letter from our physician saying Rich and I are healthy and have no diseases…
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Post adoption commitment letter saying we agree to follow up with our agency every year with our child’s progress…
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2 Letters of recommendation from a family and friends….
[both need to be notarized]
Passport photos for Ethiopian records attached to 8×11 cardstock…
(gotta love a passport picture!)
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Pictures of our family…
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Pictures of our home…
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And when you put it all together…it looks like this…
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Now…that wasn’t over anyone’s head was it? NOT bad, huh?!
Hmmm…wonder who is reading this that may itching to adopt but not sure the process…well, this is a really big part of the process—and I hope it’s no longer quite as intimidating!!! I almost didn’t share all the pictures, but then I thought if there is one person that this helps realize that it really isn’t as crazy difficult as they’ve heard…then sharing it all is well worth it!
Can’t wait for this to be out of my hands and off to AGCI on Wednesday!
And I really can’t wait to hear what our numbers are…hopefully very, very, very soon!
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3 Blessings - November 9, 2009 - 1:01 pm

Yay!

Still waiting on our case worker to call us with our number 🙂 I have checked FedEx and it was delivered. So, what's taking so long (Ha)! I am glad to hear that your dossier will be reviewed this Friday.
Blessings,
Amy

Amy - November 9, 2009 - 1:57 pm

Yay, I am so happy for you and I hope that your dossier looks great and you will have some numbers to share on Friday 🙂

Megan - November 9, 2009 - 2:14 pm

Well…for someone who will be starting the dossier shortly, appreciate that you made it look a little less scary! Although I am realizing that I have a lot of work to do to make my house look as spotless as yours!! =)

Jenn - November 9, 2009 - 2:23 pm

Our home study was approved today!! We've got our dossier ready and waiting to mail off too (thanks to the list you emailed me before the requirements got here in the mail!) HOW FUN that we are in this together!

Jenn

Are These Kids All Yours? - November 9, 2009 - 3:02 pm

Hey, if it would help someone to adopt I would volunteer to help them understand and do the paperwork- it may seem HUGE, but it is actually not bad. I would do it several times over (oh wait- i have- he he he he)….to bring home a child!

Melissa DeBardeleben - November 9, 2009 - 7:18 pm

It is happening! God's timing is here! Can't wait to hear your number!

The Emersons - November 20, 2009 - 8:03 pm

Thanks for this post, we just sent in our orientation packet to AGCI and are anxiously awaiting the arrival of our dossier packet. I've been anxious about it from other people's comments, but this looks doable! Would you mind me emailing you with some questions as you appear to be a few steps ahead of us in the same journey? My email is betsyandchad@mail.com
Blessings on your journey!
Betsy